My college friend Ginger and I were inseparable. 

We ate meals together, visited each other’s families, told each other our deepest secrets and went to the same church.

After studying abroad, I decided to visit other churches. Ginger became distant and unfriendly. She stated that we could no longer be friends if I went to a different church. I was hurt, frustrated and anxious to change her mind. 

How could she believe that we could not be friends because we went to different churches?

Months later, I realised that her church was encouraging members to become exclusive. I was thankful that God led me to leave that church, though I mourned the loss of my friend. I continued praying for Ginger. I emailed her Bible verses. I ached for our companionship.

Six years later, I received a message from Ginger. She was sorry for cutting off our friendship. She was no longer part of the church I had left and realised that God’s love isn’t limited to one church or congregation. I forgave her, and I rejoice that we are friends again. 

God’s expansive love can inspire us to forgiveness and reconciliation.

Prayer: Dear God, help us forgive one another. Reconcile relationships that have been torn apart, and teach us to love as you love. In Jesus’ holy name, we pray. Amen