Like many in my generation, I am taking care of elderly parents.

I have sole responsibility for my mum since my brother lives some miles away. 

I work hard to make sure she is taken care of and that all her needs are met. The situation is more difficult because my mum and I have never had a great relationship, but I know that taking care of her is the right thing to do. 

I want to honour her by doing the best I can, but most of the time, I am overwhelmed. I have the rest of my family to look after. 

I also have some issues with my own health and self-esteem. I look at all that I need to accomplish, and I don’t know where to start. 

Do I work at home? Do I go to my mum’s house and get it ready to sell? Do I spend time with God, knowing that he guides me to do what is right for mum and for me? When I am tired and need to rest, I fall back on Matthew 11:28.

I am thankful that God is always waiting to comfort me and reassure me that I am doing well. 

The world may be saying, ‘Why aren’t you doing more?’ but God lets me know that all I need to do is my best. I rest in the comfort of his love when taking care of Mum gets to be too much.

Prayer: Thank you, Lord, for being with us and for giving comfort and rest to the weary. Amen